issues psychology dating - Intimidating looking girl
As Jada Pinkett says; ‘no woman wants a man other women don’t want’.
In other words, women go for the man with the most status they feel they can get.
We choose the best man we believe we are worthy of. But if we keep that story in our heads…then we are simply avoiding facing the fake stories we tell ourselves and other possible realities.
I remember several years ago, being about 20 years old, and I was out with a group of girlfriends. At least not compared to the number of men who were interested in my friends. The men seemed interested in my girlfriends, but not me. Not that I was trying to actually figure it out; I was too busy feeling sorry for myself. He pulled his head right back and stepped away from me, taking one step back, literally. I remember walking away from that club where I was at, and weeks later, started to tell myself the boring story about how men don’t want to be in a relationship with me because they were intimidated by me. The reality is that attraction occurs when there is polarity.
One can’t get clarity when they are feeling sorry for themselves. I was actually totally clueless, because it was none of that. Polarity happens when there is opposite energies, it didn’t have to be that way, it is just how it is in our universe.